All posts tagged: parenting

The Balance of Parenting

Nurture. Empower. Support. Discipline. Boundaries. This parenting thing is such a balance. Build them up; foster their self-esteem; nurture confidence, yet instill independence and responsibility. Maintain boundaries. Communicate consequences. And deliver them consistently. Sometimes it’s a tough row to hoe – and not always an easy one. Take the every-day things. We usually know, in our heads, what we should do. But doesn’t the hectic pace of all those everyday-little- things-and-activities-and-to-do’s-and-texts-and-phone calls-and-emails just get in the darn way sometimes? Sometimes I think this parenting thing would be much easier, much more effective, in a place like Walden Pond or some other inspired utopian community. Ahhhhhhh . . . . not exactly realistic. But I can imagine . . . In the meantime, I, as a loving and well-intentioned parent, perpetually try to balance the delicate acts of nurturing self-confidence, self-esteem, and self-worth in my kids, while also “preparing them to be citizens of the world.” I read, I listen to, I soak in, and I ponder a variety of “parenting” topics out there, and inevitably, …

SleepAway Camp: A Stepping Stone for Independence & Responsibility?

Summer. I find myself wanting to re-create my idyllic childhood summers for my children. Isn’t that human nature, parenting nature, perhaps pure Mother Nature that drives us to re-create for our children what was good in our childhoods, while also adding in what we didn’t have? I always wanted to go to summer camp, sleepaway camp to be exact. My husband too. Whether it was financial restraints, or just not on our parents’ radar, sleepaway camp wasn’t part of the summer recipe. It’s not that I’m complaining. I was blessed with the perfect childhood summers. I spent weeks at the Jersey shore, time in Pennsylvania with grandparents, aunts, uncles & cousins, all while spending my everyday summer time in my then hometown in Connecticut. Mornings were spent at swim lessons, followed by the library, and then long, hot, lazy afternoons at the pool. Capped by neighborhood nighttime fun of Kick-the-Can, Witch’s Hour, Spud . . . catching a few of the hundreds of fireflies . . . which later transformed themselves into a temporary lantern …

How and When to Start “THE TALK” Live Twitter Chat!

Calling All Parents of PreTeen Boys and Girls! Don’t Miss This! Join me for a live Twitter Chat on Thursday, March 21, as we discuss “How and When to Start THE TALK” with your child. This is the first in a series of Twitter chats surrounding important topics related to preteens (and their parents!). There will be two sessions: noon to 1:00 pm or 8:30-9:30 pm EDT. It’s easy to take part in the Twitter chat: • Open a Twitter account (if you don’t already have one). • Use Twitter, Twub.com or Tweetchat.com to log on a few minutes before the chat. Enter #parentingtweens in the search box to participate in the conversation. • Submit questions by starting them with @factsoflifebooks, or ask your question in the status update box in Twitter. Remember to use #parentingtweens. Participants can also submit questions prior to the event by tweeting @factsoflifebooks using the hashtag #parentingtweens. What’s that again? Here’s the simple scoop: WHO Author Terri Shearer Trenchard WHAT LIVE Twitter chat discussing “How and When to Start ‘The …